Archive for August, 2011

We all have our own busy lives. And, we all have things that we want to do, have or experience in our lives that aren’t happening. Many, if not most of these things don’t seem to be possible because of the busy-ness already going on in our day to day. The kids need to be fed, the laundry needs to be done, the job needs to be worked and the better half needs some lovin or support. *sigh* No wonder we feel defeated in our dreams before we really even start.

When we think of all of the fun, fabulous, exciting, lovely things that we want to do but aren’t doing we almost always (all ways) think of why we can’t have it or why it isn’t in our lives.

“I’m too busy.”

“It’s too expensive.” “

“I’m afraid somebody might thing I’m silly.”

“It’s not a necessity right now.”

Blah, blah, blah.

STOP! For the love of yourself just STOP! 

Stop looking at all of the reasons why it’s not happening or why it “shouldn’t” happen. If you keep thinking and talking about why it isn’t here or why it can’t or shouldn’t be (and this is big yet oh so simple) IT WILL NEVER BE. Did you get that? If you keep giving your energy and your attention to it not being available to you, it never ever will be. Not until you change your tune.

So what’s a girl to do? I’m glad you asked. Spend your time looking at all of the reasons why you WANT it in your life. Spend your time dreaming it up. See it, feel it, taste it, touch it…. experience it in your mind and your spirit. 

Think about why you want it to happen. Forget “reality” and make it feel real! Believe it is possible one way or another. Believe you deserve it. Believe you are worthy of joy and happiness, love and success. You don’t have to figure out the steps and answers to how it will happen. Once you start practising the feelings of it as if it has already happened or is happening, you are allowing the Universe to show you the how. The answers will suddenly come to you along with the perfect opportunities to make it happen.

It is through our relaxed, loving and connected allowing of life, that living really, I mean REALLY happens.

“If you can dream it up, the Universe has the where-with-all to make it happen.” ~ Abraham

Now go ahead and dream. Dream big, dream juicy, dream bright, dream exciting… And stay there for as long as you can. Go back there as often as you can. And watch as these things begin to magically show up in your life. Oh such fun!